Paul Do most white Minnesota men not like to date outside of their race? Paul Twin Cities Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. View detailed profile Advanced or search site with Search Forums Advanced. I am an attractive Asian woman who is attracted to white men, but I'm having a hard time attracting them.
I notice that there is not a lot of interracial dating in MN, even in the Twin Cities area. If I go even 5 minutes outside of the Twin Cities and its surrounding suburbs, then it gets worse. I love going up north, but I get the most unpleasant stares ever. I'm open to other races, but I'm just more attracted to white men. I also tried online dating, but I've never seen so many profiles that state they only want white. The ones that don't state it will immediately block me. Yep, all here in the Twin Cities.
Your experience really surprises me, as the Twin Cities actually has a reputation for interracial dating, both historically and also today. I'm a white male and I would prefer to date outside of my race.
Kind of funny because I actually prefer Asian and I've had the same concerns about Asian females as you have about white men. I guess the point is, no not all prefer to stay within their race.
It's not the boroughs of NY or CA. Probably even more important: this is a chilly place socially, especially among the 'whites. The truth is well over 90 percent of my social interactions--unless I'm at work or handing over ducats to a 'native' white cashier--are with ppl from outside Minnesota, regardless of race, nationality, ethnicity.
It's not a very friendly place, in that way. My advice would be try to focus on events, groups, activities that have a lot of transplants.
Maybe try socializing in areas that are more diverse, i. You will see a lot less white men but the ones you see might be less nineteenth century and more open to you.
Best of luck and don't let it get you down; it's not a bad town just not a great place to date. Originally Posted by montymontage. I'm extremely surprised by this. Although I'm personally a few decades removed from the dating scene, none of the young White men I know would be inclined to reject an attractive Asian woman as a dating partner.
In fact, to the extent that I'm aware of their dating preferences, Asian women are usually at the top of the list.
I was born and raised in MN and actually dated several Asian Women between my late teenage years and mid 20s. I didn't think of it as an "outside of my own race" thing. For me it was simply an attraction that formed because of who I was hanging around with.
And at the times I dated those women, it wasn't looked down on or thought weird of. I don't think it was that uncommon, maybe since youre not having a lot of luck dating, it just seems like a stereotype. I say hang in there.
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Don't try so hard to date "White Guys" just date Guys. Here is one thing to consider though when you talk about going out further. Being born and raised there I know the culture there. We were born and raised to hang with the people we know and we tend to have large circles of friends.
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So its not that they wouldn't date an asian girl, its really just a thing where its tough to get into their sphere. We tended to date our friends a lot if you know what I mean. We all hung out so much and so often, we didn't have time for newbies. So maybe just take it slow, build some relationships first. After you build trust with some of the guys, then approach the subject. Im sure you will be fine.
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Originally Posted by wushuliu. Meanwhile as life passes her by Minnesotans are really nice folks but a lot of them have poor skills when it comes to meeting new people. One of the most awkward experiences I ever had, but typical in Minnesota. I believe for generational Minnesotans what we are discussing is cultural. For many years I assumed it had something to do with the nature of Northern Europeans but then I got to know relatives from the "old country" and started to rethink it.
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I think some of this reserve may be an artifact of the immigration experience. These were people for whom it was important to fit it and not look different. They were careful not to expose too much of themselves for fear of not seeming sufficiently in the mainstream. From the family stories I've been told they were subject to ridicule and considered backwards and gullible by the people who were already here. And often they were taken advantage of. I wonder how much of that caution has been passed down and is the sort of "reserve" people notice in Minnesotans.
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