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Courtney Vinopal Courtney Vinopal. When California issued a stay-at-home order back in March to curb the spread of the coronavirus, Dana Angelo, a year-old copywriter at an ad agency in Los Angeles, found herself with more free time. So, out of boredom, she turned to a social activity she could still do from home: She got back on the dating app, Bumble.

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Seventy years ago, the Yale sociologist John Ellsworth Jr. Though the internet allows us to connect with people across the globe near instantly, dating apps like Tinder prioritize showing us nearby matches, the assumption being the best date is the one we can meet up with as quickly as possible with little inconvenience. A year and a half ago, I was 23, single, and working as an engineer at the online-dating site OkCupid. The site held a similar philosophy when it came to distance, and we employees would sometimes joke we needed to add a special filter for New Yorkers that let them specify, Show me matches under 10 miles, but nobody from New Jersey. At the time, I loved the concept of online dating and went out with other Manhattanites almost every weekend. But I quickly came to hate first dates themselves.

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Jenna created a Tinder profile when she was This was common practice at the New Jersey high school where she was a senior and her best way into a swipe-right culture that promised access to intimacy and acceptance. Jenna was a teenager.

She had never been kissed. This was a no-brainer.

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So… my friends had boyfriends. I mean, no one at my school seems like worth it. Jenna ed Tinder inshortly after the company announced that the platform would be excluding the to year-olds it had ly welcomed. Though Tinder co-founder Justin Mateen had defended providing young people with access, saying it was a way to make friends, the company caved to public pressure.

For many, it had become a place to find random hookups and validation.

For others, it had become a safe place to experiment with their sexuality. Perhaps for most, it offered a rough introduction into the adult sexual economy. The process of downloading the dating app took me less than a minute.

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I just had to verify my address. For my first profile, I used an actual photo of myself as well as my real name and actual age. Thinking I might find more unders if I posed as an year-old, I deleted my and made a new one with the same picture, same name, and a different in the same span of time.

I also pressed Tinder on their age verification standards, but they did not respond to requests for comment. The app allows users to report on people not using it properly, but that seems to be the extent of the monitoring.

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Launched inTinder has long been the most popular dating app in the world. Used in about countries, it boasts 10 million active daily users and 50 million total users. At the time Tinder announced new age restrictions, three percent of its daily user base was underage, amounting to some 1. They pretended to be 18 and stuck around for the thrill of it. For better and mostly worse, the teens are still there. How many underage kids are on Tinder? More than a few is a safe guess.

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Dines studies the way that the easy and ubiquitous access to pornography on the Internet affects romantic dating culture and argues that Tinder and other such dating apps have changed the teenage years by providing teens with a reason to obsess over their sexual presentation. Especially for girls. Young girls have long been sexualized.

Now, they are self-sexualizing to an increasing degree. And Tinder gives them a platform on which to practice being objectified and objectifying each other in lieu of developing strong social bonds. Adolescence, Dines adds, is a time for experimentation on every level. By moving away from the physical, teens are missing out on a very crucial experience.

Terry downloaded Tinder when she was 17 and it was legal to be on the platform. Like the others, Terry, who is now 22, says that all of her friends were on the app. Unlike them, she listed her real age and ultimately regretted it.

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Before she abandoned the apps, she had run-ins with men who lied about their age or who wanted to pick her up and take her to an undisclosed location. There are some creeps on there. Adults know this. Many see a fun app for meeting people or hooking up. Amanda Rose, a year-old mom and professional matchmaker from New York, has two teenage boys, 15 and 17, and concerns about the way that social media and tech has changed dating. You have to be really careful and mindful about who you interact with online. Still, certain teenagers who ventured onto Tinder have positive stories.

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Katie, who asked to be referred to by her first name only for privacy, went to an all-girls Catholic school and had a conservative family. It felt very safe and private. On Tinder, Katie says she saw women from her high school looking for other women.

Seeing this helped her feel less alone. Katie downloaded Tinder at a volleyball tournament. She was with a bunch of friends.

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They were all women and all straight. So, I kind of used it more to just figure out what being gay is like, I guess.

Her experience was freeing. The trend of queer people using dating apps to enter relationships is well-known. That Katie got on the app when she was 16 is maybe not typical, but she found her first girlfriend on the app, and within a few years, came out to her family. To find love and acceptance, one must put themselves out there.

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For teenagers, those whose lives are basically based around understanding and seeking acceptance, this can be an especially daunting prospect — especially so in an age when digital communication is the norm. So why not jump on Tinder, which requires one-minute of setup to help them sit on the edge of — or dive directly into — the dating pool?

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Tinder is the lowest effort dating platform, in my opinion. Fostering connections may be more bug than feature. More than anything, that may be the hazard teens face on Tinder: the morphing of their own expectations.

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