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Everyone knows that long distance-relationships aren't easy. I mean, it's not like they are anyone's dream relationship; however, more and more college students are finding themselves in long distance relationships.

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This piece was written a few years ago. A lot has happened in the world since, especially in I was delighted to see their love story continues, not in a straight line as is nothing for most of us with COVID, yet they continue to press on despite being an ocean apart. How do you make a long distance relationship work? My short answer is focused intention, effort, prioritizing each other, frustration tolerance and creativity. This young couple in their early twenties met through a friend in a whirlwind three years ago. He is British and she American.

Sam and Monica spend about half the year apart in approximately 2 month stretches, flying back and forth with a lot of travel adventuring in between. Sam is a go-getter on steroids running two businesses in the UK, in addition to the social media management company he and Monica run together.

I spent some time studying them which is not hard to via their relationship channel on YouTube as well as their individual social media s like Twitter where whoever is interested can either engage with them or be a voyeur. I am fascinated not only by the brilliance in their use of the this media as somethings are known to be but the inspirational content for other couples in long distance relationships.

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And they have an army of relationship cheerleaders and supporters who are clearly behind Sam and Monica. True, many in a long distance relationship are likely not afforded the luxury of the frequent travel of these two, but Sam and Monica definitely have something special and wisdom to impart to couples of any age.

Their humor seeps through in a really delightful way which makes them particularly relatable and enjoyable. Sam: The thing I love most about Monica is how selfless, genuine and kind she is. Monica: What I love most about Sam is how ambitious and motivating he is.

Because of him, I feel more accomplished and much more motivated to work harder.

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On top of that, he is by far the funniest person I have ever met! Every single day, he makes me cry laughing with his silly jokes. Monica: A few of the ways we stay connected is by obviously video chatting a few times a day, having online dates, sending each other secret gifts in the mail and even leaving things for each other when we go home for the other person to end up finding.

Monica: The hardest part of having a LDR is definitely the time difference.

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So I live half my day without him and the other half is just FaceTime that cuts out. Sam: I used to be a full-time male model and she regularly got jealous. Monica: Jealousy has come up before. He used to model and constantly be around beautiful girls, and as someone who is insecure with themselves, it makes me feel uneasy. I would just feel as if he was going to find someone better.

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At the beginning, it was tough! Are either one of you more physically tactile than the other or a cuddler? How do you deal with lack of physical contact and sleeping alone if these things are really important?

We both love cuddling but there comes a point when I have to work and she just wants to laze around and cuddle all day!! It never gets easier.

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How do you deal with challenging emotions that come up related to being so far away for much of the time? How do you get through those times?

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We rarely argue or doubt things now but, when we do, we always talk them out well, I do, anyway. Monica sits there quietly until I figure out something is wrong and then it takes me 25 minutes to get it out of her!! We got through it because of our business! It gives us so much freedom and obviously helps us to afford the relationship!

At this point, both families are pretty much begging us to get married!

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Monica: My family is so supportive towards our relationship! They always have been! Sam: Her most annoying habit is waking up at around 11am every day. Even when he goes to bed super late, he always gets up around 6am!! Can you give me one nugget of advice for other long distance couples around how to stay connected when apart?

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Monica and Sam agreed : One important thing of advice on staying connected is, spice up the relationship! Have an online date, surprise your partner with a letter in the mail, just little things — they go a long way. She is a frequent consultant for the media having appeared in CNN. Relationships Healthy Relationships. Meet Sam and Monica.

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I interviewed Sam and Monica via e-mail and here is what they had to say: What do you love the most about each other? What are some of the ways you stay connected? What has been the hardest about having a long distance relationship? Has jealousy ever come up for either of you and how do you handle it? What do your families think about your relationship and business together?

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Does the other have an annoying habit? You can follow the long distance relationship adventures of Sam and Monica on their YouTube Channel, www. View all posts.

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